Friday the 13th

TOTALLY not wedding related, but I don't like Friday the 13th. I'm a little superstitious to start with and this year there is going to be 3 Friday the 13ths. This happens once every 11 years.

Here are five of our favorite Friday-the-13th facts from LiveScience.com:

1. Fear of Friday the 13th — one of the most popular myths in science — is called paraskavedekatriaphobia as well as friggatriskaidekaphobia. Triskaidekaphobia is fear of the number 13.

2. Many hospitals have no room 13, while some tall buildings skip the 13th floor and some airline terminals omit Gate 13.

3. President Franklin D. Roosevelt would not travel on the 13th day of any month and would never host 13 guests at a meal. Napoleon and President Herbert Hoover were also triskaidekaphobic, with an abnormal fear of the number 13.

4. Mark Twain once was the 13th guest at a dinner party. A friend warned him not to go. "It was bad luck," Twain later told the friend. "They only had food for 12." Superstitious diners in Paris can hire a quatorzieme, or professional 14th guest.

5. The number 13 suffers from its position after 12, according to numerologists who consider the latter to be a complete number — 12 months in a year, 12 signs of the zodiac, 12 gods of Olympus, 12 labors of Hercules, 12 tribes of Israel, 12 apostles of Jesus, 12 days of Christmas and 12 eggs in a dozen.

Moving to the DFW

In a couple of months Grant and I won't be a long distance couple anymore. I am so excited about it I can't even stand it!! But...we are both moving to the DFW area. For those of you that are familiar with the area, you may be asking, "which area?" I have no answer. We have no idea. Neither of us have spent a lot of time there, unless the hours and hours we spent driving around count. Our requirements are different and we are figuring out how to mesh them.

I want:
-close to downtown--I really hate commuting.
-safe! This is harder than I thought.

Grant wants:
-newer home. He will be doing the repair work so I understand
-safe! One same want!
-2 car garage. He has a lot of garage-related hobbies :)

I hope we can find something and I can get back to spending my free time looking a wedding stuff. :)

Guy Garb

I've been thinking about what Grant is going to where at the wedding lately. We decided that a beige suit would fit our location and style best. And..he can always wear a suit again.

Now all I need is a lake.... hmmm...
www.brides.com

love it. www.brides.com

I want a picture like this one. I like his shoes in this one quite a bit. www.brides.com

I actually checked out the place where this wedding was. The ceremony would be right on the river (sigh..) but overall wasn't really what we were looking for. www.theknot.com

Oops. This isn't suits. Oh well, the wedding above was a June Hill Country weddding and needed fans too! I love these. www.theknot.com

The "Why" of Our Locale

Grant and I saw A LOT of wedding venues and looked at even more online. He has been the MOST patience and sweet guy through this whole process. I guess that is why I'm marrying him (and a whole myriad of other reasons..).
Here is what we looked at in person:
1. Winfield Inn
2. Ye Kendall Inn
3. Nimitz Museum
4. Grape Creek Vineyards
5. Terrace Club
6. Thurman Mansion
I can't even list what we looked at online! The reasons that I picked the Hofmann Ranch are numerous but kinda hard to put into words. It was just one of those things that you know it when you've got it. Here is what I judged on:

• owners/coordinators--Are they easy to work with, did they return emails/phone calls?
• ceremony site--I really want to get married at the same place as the reception so this was very important to me.
• location--I am really excited that the Hofmann Ranch is close to my hometown, it will make things a lot easier.
  
• rain plan--Yes, it is Texas and it rarely rains but if there wasn't a plan I am sure that it would!
• time you can party til--some places cut you off at 10pm!
  
• overall feel--This is your gut on the place.

Befores and Afters of my Home

I just wanted to show what an awesome job my (soon to be) brother in law did on my kitchen and bathroom. I think that it has really taken the place from the 1970s up to modern times. In the kitchen we replaced the tile (it was SO old and gross) with brown 6" square tiles and a brown and beige back splash. We also painted the cabinets an "ivory mist." I really love paint names.


This is the living room painting that my fiance and I did when I moved in a couple of years ago. Yes, the mirror wasn't removed (I think they stuck it on with super glue!) and just painted (a couple of coats over the mirror. No one would ever guess that there was mirror under there.


I still need to put on the hardware (brushed nickel knobs) but I love it. I'm so glad I get to enjoy it for a couple of months until I move out in May.


I am so sad that I don't have a before of this bathroom because the difference is huge. There is a new counter top and faucet changed out from the old circa 1979 yellow top that was on there before. The cabinet went from the same goldy brown that was in the kitchen to ivory mist as well. We also added the border around the mirror. What a difference!!


So I hope all of these changes will help my very loved condo sell in a couple of months. If you know anyone who is looking to buy a beauty of a condo in soon--send them my way!

Under the Three Month Mark!

And I am not talking about the wedding! Less than three months until Grant and I are no longer a long distance couple. Yes, it is only 2 hour away, but I don't care--I can't wait to not have to drive (and no more classes only clinicals for me and graduation for Grant).

The Food (my favorite part!)

I realized today that we decided on a wedding location but I haven’t given any more information on it. It is about 20 minutes outside of San Antonio in the adorable community of Castroville. They really have some cute shops and places to eat including…The Castroville Café. They also provide all of the catering for the Hofmann Ranch. So after touring the ranch (and falling in love with it), we headed into Castroville for lunch. Super yum. I am really excited to have the wedding food in their capable hands. For weddings they do three options:
1. Formal seated meals.
2. Banquet service (buffet).
3. Family style.
I knew I didn’t really want formal seated because it doesn’t fit with the wedding and people can’t change their minds when they see all of the awesome food. Banquet is good, but you see it everywhere and Grant and I LOVED the idea of family style when we were first introduced to it at the Salt Lick many moons ago. We probably won’t have anyone at the wedding with crazy food requests (vegetarian, vegan, only free range chicken ☺) so family style it is. The number of menus that Gary Carter (owner of The Castroville Café) has is awesome. Here are some of my favorite options:
• Chicken cordon Bleu with White Wine Cream Sauce
• Grilled Pork Loin Chop
• Pecan Crusted Chicken Breast
• Beef Tenderloin
• Confetti Chicken (didn’t know what this one was but he described it, it sounded awesome)
We can easily do two options with family style and then people get what they want (aka both options). Any ideas on which two to pick?